Coherence Busting as skill
Probably you need more data!
Your brain forms thoughts using two distinct and separated system. Only one of them is used in the same time:
- System 1: quick reflex
- System 2: slow reasoning
System 1 takes short-cuts and creating cognitive bias.
When you recognize this could happen you can ask more details to understand the context, what is behind.
Via this way you can activate System 2 during being curious and fix from a coherence story to a correct story.